The partnership is key.

Each child needs to know the significant adults in his life care about him and his future. Parents and educators share this responsibility. It’s important for parents to make a commitment to their child’s educational needs. What the parent values, the child will value. Both parents and educators must keep the lines of communication open. Encourage contacts for any reason. Don’t wait to call with a problem – call with good news.

Start each year with a clean slate.

A positive attitude will do wonders for the year to come. It will also provide an important example for your child to follow. Say “yes” to the parent/teacher conference – it is the single most important contact. The good of the child is the focus, so begin with trust. Help the teacher understand the personality of you child. Mention any special concerns like divorce, a recent move, or the death of a loved one.

If a problem arises, don’t jump to a conclusion. Check with the teacher first. Ask the teacher the same questions you ask your child. Are the perceptions different? Why? Remember the teacher is a valuable resource in helping you solve problems.

Be a cheerleader for your student.

It’s important to impress upon your child how exciting learning is, and that lifelong learning is a worthy and obtainable goal. Your support will help your child see that she has control over her future. Encourage and support special activities, but don’t pressure.

Show that you admire effort as well as achievement. Keep in mind that your child is more important than her grades. Be there for the big moments. A child feels special when she knows her family is sharing the experience.

Children of all ages – even teenagers – are proud of parents who help out at school. It is proof positive that Mom and Dad feel the child’s activities (and the child) are important enough to devote a little time and energy. Even busy parents can find meaningful ways to build their child’s self-esteem by helping out at school.